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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 641857" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>The possible reasons why brother would want difficult child move:</p><p></p><p>1. As you said MWM, interfering with his own life and comfort, even if difficult child was a saint. If she becomes too much of a burden for him.</p><p></p><p>2.Possibly he might get hurt because difficult child doesn't or didn't in the past, interact with his kids a lot. They love her to death but she barely wants to spend time with them. It's not personal, she is just not a kid person at all. She loves her cousins dearly, but they are over a decade and more younger than she is on top of it. However, I am sure it could be hurtful sometimes for my brother to see his kids vine for my daughters attention and she barely gives them any. I know how that feels because he was the same way with her when she was a baby and a little kid growing up! so he really has no room to talk and he knows that.</p><p></p><p>3.If she loses her job and doesn't get another one. That would be a big one.</p><p></p><p>4,If she disrespects his girlfriend or doesn't listen to her, such as keeping her room clean (which is very hard for difficult child to do)</p><p></p><p>5. My brothers girlfriend setting up difficult child to be kicked out because she doesn't want difficult child living there. Not because she doesn't like difficult child, but for other reasons. Yes, his girlfriend would totally do something slimy like that with no hesitation.</p><p></p><p>6. Other reasons I might not even be aware of</p><p></p><p>Those are a few reasons that I could think of that he would want her to leave, but even at that, he wouldn't kick her out with no where to go. He would at least find her a place. That's why I can not make it easy for him if he decides to pull me in, which is why I have his text messages at the ready. I have to let them know I can not be an option, even though deep down I would take her if it is the absolute last option, but they don't need to know that.</p><p></p><p>As far as I know, everything is going pretty well over there. I don't think any of this is happening because everyone seems to be happy and difficult child is working a lot. So, I am going to leave at that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 641857, member: 18233"] The possible reasons why brother would want difficult child move: 1. As you said MWM, interfering with his own life and comfort, even if difficult child was a saint. If she becomes too much of a burden for him. 2.Possibly he might get hurt because difficult child doesn't or didn't in the past, interact with his kids a lot. They love her to death but she barely wants to spend time with them. It's not personal, she is just not a kid person at all. She loves her cousins dearly, but they are over a decade and more younger than she is on top of it. However, I am sure it could be hurtful sometimes for my brother to see his kids vine for my daughters attention and she barely gives them any. I know how that feels because he was the same way with her when she was a baby and a little kid growing up! so he really has no room to talk and he knows that. 3.If she loses her job and doesn't get another one. That would be a big one. 4,If she disrespects his girlfriend or doesn't listen to her, such as keeping her room clean (which is very hard for difficult child to do) 5. My brothers girlfriend setting up difficult child to be kicked out because she doesn't want difficult child living there. Not because she doesn't like difficult child, but for other reasons. Yes, his girlfriend would totally do something slimy like that with no hesitation. 6. Other reasons I might not even be aware of Those are a few reasons that I could think of that he would want her to leave, but even at that, he wouldn't kick her out with no where to go. He would at least find her a place. That's why I can not make it easy for him if he decides to pull me in, which is why I have his text messages at the ready. I have to let them know I can not be an option, even though deep down I would take her if it is the absolute last option, but they don't need to know that. As far as I know, everything is going pretty well over there. I don't think any of this is happening because everyone seems to be happy and difficult child is working a lot. So, I am going to leave at that. [/QUOTE]
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