So now difficult child is 19, has no money, no job, no place to live. The only thing she has left is a car that is very old and can't be trusted. Not only that, her car insurance expires at the end of this month. How much worse can it get? I texted her a list of local programs that can help her. One, I spoke to myself and was told that she can come tomorrow for temp living and that she can stay up to 60 days while they get her into their 2 year program. I am praying she can get in there. Detaching is nearly impossible right now. I'm a nervous wreck. I cannot have her live here. She's awful to me on the phone. I can only imagine life with her in this house with little ones witnessing every incident. I feel like a fool asking for assistance for her, when they are probably thinking "why don't YOU take her back. She's your daughter" I hesitate to tell them she'll make my life a living hell if she lives here because that might scare them off from helping her. This is so hard. SO SO HARD.