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And so dawns another day......
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<blockquote data-quote="Sara PA" data-source="post: 74024" data-attributes="member: 1498"><p>My first thoughts about difficult child#1 were pretty much the same as Stella's and Marguerite's but I want to caution you about the abuse primary caregivers take. We often get the worst of it because we represent the unconditional love they crave. They alternate between taking things out on us because they know we will love them anyway and testing us to make sure we will love them no matter what the do or don't do. difficult child#1 trusts your love as much as she can trust anyone's love. She knows she won't get that from her mother but is trying to get it from her father. She is lying to herself, trying to convince herself that her father's home is better than yours. If she can just convince you she can convince herself and maybe it will be true....... And maybe at least one of her parents will love her. </p><p></p><p>I, too, wonder what medications your kids are on, especially difficult child#3. Frequent, uncontrolled urination can be a side effect for some drugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sara PA, post: 74024, member: 1498"] My first thoughts about difficult child#1 were pretty much the same as Stella's and Marguerite's but I want to caution you about the abuse primary caregivers take. We often get the worst of it because we represent the unconditional love they crave. They alternate between taking things out on us because they know we will love them anyway and testing us to make sure we will love them no matter what the do or don't do. difficult child#1 trusts your love as much as she can trust anyone's love. She knows she won't get that from her mother but is trying to get it from her father. She is lying to herself, trying to convince herself that her father's home is better than yours. If she can just convince you she can convince herself and maybe it will be true....... And maybe at least one of her parents will love her. I, too, wonder what medications your kids are on, especially difficult child#3. Frequent, uncontrolled urination can be a side effect for some drugs. [/QUOTE]
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