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<blockquote data-quote="Kalahou" data-source="post: 674935" data-attributes="member: 19617"><p>I'm with you mtdenise. I'd be insane with you. But by detaching from these DCs and observing from a distance, it is finally a relief that it's "<em>not my problem</em>" as you said.</p><p></p><p>Not sad at all ! It shows you are progressing well in detaching with wisdom. With my own son, I don't know where he is or what he's doing, and it is really more of a relief not to know. I like to think no news is good news. I did see him for 5 minutes last week as he came unexpectedly to the yard to grab something from his storage shed. (Actually, I was surprised I did feel a relief to see him, simply because I did not even know if he was alive as I had not seen nor heard the past weeks.) Surprisingly, he gave me a quick hug as he rushed off, and said "call me sometimes, mom." I kept quiet, but thought to myself "no, I really don't want to call you, what for? I really don't want to know anything." He's so uncommunicative, that if I did call it would be like a one way interrogation ( same old... same old....) so no thank you. (Of course he never calls us.)</p><p></p><p>I'm with you again on this one also. This board saves me each time I come here everyday and learn something new I need to hear and know. I've been able to use so many suggestions and responses learned here to stay strong and unemotional and detached. I am so glad to hear you say you are <em>putting it all out of your head</em>. Your good report helps to build us all up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kalahou, post: 674935, member: 19617"] I'm with you mtdenise. I'd be insane with you. But by detaching from these DCs and observing from a distance, it is finally a relief that it's "[I]not my problem[/I]" as you said. Not sad at all ! It shows you are progressing well in detaching with wisdom. With my own son, I don't know where he is or what he's doing, and it is really more of a relief not to know. I like to think no news is good news. I did see him for 5 minutes last week as he came unexpectedly to the yard to grab something from his storage shed. (Actually, I was surprised I did feel a relief to see him, simply because I did not even know if he was alive as I had not seen nor heard the past weeks.) Surprisingly, he gave me a quick hug as he rushed off, and said "call me sometimes, mom." I kept quiet, but thought to myself "no, I really don't want to call you, what for? I really don't want to know anything." He's so uncommunicative, that if I did call it would be like a one way interrogation ( same old... same old....) so no thank you. (Of course he never calls us.) I'm with you again on this one also. This board saves me each time I come here everyday and learn something new I need to hear and know. I've been able to use so many suggestions and responses learned here to stay strong and unemotional and detached. I am so glad to hear you say you are [I]putting it all out of your head[/I]. Your good report helps to build us all up. [/QUOTE]
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