I posted not long ago because my daughter is getting married in two weeks. Somehow I just cant seem to keep from getting weepy. She has been living with him a year and going with him 5 years. I hope it is the right decision. I just dont see her very much - they live about 1 mile from me. It seems they spend more time with his family. He is from a divorced family - 3 times. I just miss her already. Any help? Also my oldest son is a difficult child and has been diagnosed bipolar and has used drugs. I do not think I can trust him to go to the reception where their will be free beer and wine. What do I do about that? How can I tell him he cant come? He probably doesnt want to anyway. It is weird. We were such a close family I thought. I stayed home 15 years with my children only to feel like I got slapped in the face. My youngest is 17 and he is great. What now?