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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 749757" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>Had he bonded with anyone before he was adopted? Lack of bonding when they are newborns can lead to a lot of problematic behavior. I read from one of your posts that you got him at four months old. Some kids inherit these behaviors. Nature wins out over nurture every time. After I left home at 23, I began behaving badly because of an unusually strict Christian upbringing, but was still working and having a normal life. I found myself over spending, going to certain parts of town my parents had forbade me to go, etc. I changed to a denomination my dad didn't like. Some of it was to get at him. I also eloped, mostly because I wanted to, but also to let my father see that I was in control. I was also being a responsible adult in other ways. I finished college, worked, took care of my garden, learned to cook, etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 749757, member: 21066"] Had he bonded with anyone before he was adopted? Lack of bonding when they are newborns can lead to a lot of problematic behavior. I read from one of your posts that you got him at four months old. Some kids inherit these behaviors. Nature wins out over nurture every time. After I left home at 23, I began behaving badly because of an unusually strict Christian upbringing, but was still working and having a normal life. I found myself over spending, going to certain parts of town my parents had forbade me to go, etc. I changed to a denomination my dad didn't like. Some of it was to get at him. I also eloped, mostly because I wanted to, but also to let my father see that I was in control. I was also being a responsible adult in other ways. I finished college, worked, took care of my garden, learned to cook, etc. [/QUOTE]
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