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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 653139" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I'm here too Sherri. It's tough being the only level headed one in a tribe of troubled people........makes for that crazy feeling, especially when they conveniently blame you. You did the right thing in leaving your husband. Sounds as if your two youngest kids inherited his behaviors. It's hard to let ourselves off the hook when everyone around us points those sticky fingers.....however, let me say this loudly, <strong><em>you didn't do anything wrong</em></strong>. Feeling as if you did because of being blamed, is what allows the others to take advantage of you. Stay strong and keep those boundaries intact. Follow your gut. I hope you're getting some kind of support so you have someone in your corner who can guide you and offer you compassion and understanding. You don't deserve to be treated badly. Hang in there. We're here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 653139, member: 13542"] I'm here too Sherri. It's tough being the only level headed one in a tribe of troubled people........makes for that crazy feeling, especially when they conveniently blame you. You did the right thing in leaving your husband. Sounds as if your two youngest kids inherited his behaviors. It's hard to let ourselves off the hook when everyone around us points those sticky fingers.....however, let me say this loudly, [B][I]you didn't do anything wrong[/I][/B]. Feeling as if you did because of being blamed, is what allows the others to take advantage of you. Stay strong and keep those boundaries intact. Follow your gut. I hope you're getting some kind of support so you have someone in your corner who can guide you and offer you compassion and understanding. You don't deserve to be treated badly. Hang in there. We're here for you. [/QUOTE]
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