was getting dinner ready tonight when the phone rang. didn't run to it, let the machine get it. i called back after i got me and difficult child dinner and sat down. it was the lady down the street who difficult child has played with her 4 & 6 year old kids for a couple of years now. all week he's been absolutely great, no arguments, no cussing, no meltdowns, no flip flops of attitudes from one minute to the next. it's been heaven. but yesterday i noticed he was kind of hyper and running around, screaming out what ever came out of his mouth, me reminding him of language, picking at the dogs busting a bottle and lying about it in the drive way. then i find out that when he went down to play, her mother in law was there at one point and heard him telling her kids "oh i sleep naked (he does not) just me and my w** w** and talking about his p****... i tried to explain that he's been seeing someone for 21/2 years he's ADHD, bipolar, ODD...........uggghhh........people with children that don't have problems think you're talking some kind of foreign language and don't understand even if you go into detail. well now he's not allowed to go down there anymore because she has to take precautions on what her kids hear and they can't hear that kind of thing so he's not allowed down there anymore. the biggest thing is that the neighborhood is so tight that i know she's going to go tell other paents not that they don't all know. i understand he shouldn't say these things and i don't know why he does, but he's lost so many friends and has maybe one place in the neighborhood left. i just wish i knew what to do and how to get people to understand. thanks for listening.