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Another point of view on Shunning. And shunning vs. no contact
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 674755" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I will come back later to read fully and well, and to comment.</p><p></p><p>My first thoughts and feelings are pain and guilt because I did not see or talk with my mother, nor she with me, for something like 10 years. Nor my sister.</p><p></p><p>Was I shunning her? </p><p></p><p>Was I shunned? </p><p></p><p>Nobody ever called me to say: S, can we work this out? What is your pain? What can we do, to be together?</p><p></p><p>Once, out of the blue my sister sent me a wedding invitation, which I ignored. But it got my attention. Whether she wanted me to see her grand wedding, or wanted the missing sister to be "seen" like a zoo animal, I do not know. But I felt then I was just a prop to some scenario and result my sister wanted, that had nothing at all to do with me. Who I am. </p><p></p><p>It took years and years (and this site) to understand the depths of that.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 674755, member: 18958"] I will come back later to read fully and well, and to comment. My first thoughts and feelings are pain and guilt because I did not see or talk with my mother, nor she with me, for something like 10 years. Nor my sister. Was I shunning her? Was I shunned? Nobody ever called me to say: S, can we work this out? What is your pain? What can we do, to be together? Once, out of the blue my sister sent me a wedding invitation, which I ignored. But it got my attention. Whether she wanted me to see her grand wedding, or wanted the missing sister to be "seen" like a zoo animal, I do not know. But I felt then I was just a prop to some scenario and result my sister wanted, that had nothing at all to do with me. Who I am. It took years and years (and this site) to understand the depths of that. COPA [/QUOTE]
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