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Another point of view on Shunning. And shunning vs. no contact
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 674768" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I believe many shunners, especially if they do it often and have other issues such as eating disorders or trouble getting close to people or erratic behavior, also have personality disorders. And this makes them lack empathy and compassion and perhaps even makes them like to exclude and hurt others, mostly in their family, even close relatives. I have lived this all my life and have come to the conclusion that shunners either truly suffered serious SERIOUS abuse or are personality disordered and actually like to go over the top to hurt us, like my sis calling the police on us multiple times as a means to stop me from asking her why she is angry. That's not t he normal way to solve problems. </p><p></p><p>But it is normal to them and they have no remorse. They think it is a win for them. They like to win and do extraordinary things to shun us. I can't come up w ith another explanation. Of course, drug addiction is different...people act strange while taking drugs and it doesn't mean a personality disorder, although more people with PD's use drugs than not. And drink. And like excitement and risk. And cut us off...shun us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 674768, member: 1550"] I believe many shunners, especially if they do it often and have other issues such as eating disorders or trouble getting close to people or erratic behavior, also have personality disorders. And this makes them lack empathy and compassion and perhaps even makes them like to exclude and hurt others, mostly in their family, even close relatives. I have lived this all my life and have come to the conclusion that shunners either truly suffered serious SERIOUS abuse or are personality disordered and actually like to go over the top to hurt us, like my sis calling the police on us multiple times as a means to stop me from asking her why she is angry. That's not t he normal way to solve problems. But it is normal to them and they have no remorse. They think it is a win for them. They like to win and do extraordinary things to shun us. I can't come up w ith another explanation. Of course, drug addiction is different...people act strange while taking drugs and it doesn't mean a personality disorder, although more people with PD's use drugs than not. And drink. And like excitement and risk. And cut us off...shun us. [/QUOTE]
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