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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 649641" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>He doesn't get this because he believes that you will give in and swoop in and fix everything for him. It has happened in the past so why shouldn't he think that you will get scared enough and give in. Why do you think he is telling you about the dangerous loan? My daughter uses suicide threats to try to scare us in to giving her what she wants.</p><p></p><p>You have to be consistent for a long time before he will realize that he has to fix this himself.</p><p></p><p>I also don't agree with the red cross basket. Unfortunately, with kids like ours, if you give in the slightest little bit, they take it as your resolve is crumbling and they barrel in for more. If they see the slightest weakness, they see it as a win.</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 649641, member: 1967"] He doesn't get this because he believes that you will give in and swoop in and fix everything for him. It has happened in the past so why shouldn't he think that you will get scared enough and give in. Why do you think he is telling you about the dangerous loan? My daughter uses suicide threats to try to scare us in to giving her what she wants. You have to be consistent for a long time before he will realize that he has to fix this himself. I also don't agree with the red cross basket. Unfortunately, with kids like ours, if you give in the slightest little bit, they take it as your resolve is crumbling and they barrel in for more. If they see the slightest weakness, they see it as a win. ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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