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<blockquote data-quote="so ready to live" data-source="post: 725320" data-attributes="member: 20054"><p>Still. I'm so sorry. I've had many sleepless nights and faked it the next day...in some context, I feel faking it really helps. It is the going on with the life you have, not the one you wish for...So many times I needed to get out of myself and realize "this is not all there is". Find those few close people who you can be honest with and do so, but not continually. Post here and begin to realize the value of your life. </p><p></p><p>You've done all you can.. Our son is also learning disabled and that has so blurred my ability to discern what enables or not. The old question of what he is truly capable of in supporting himself. I remind myself that regardless he does know right and wrong. He has chosen the easy way, the dishonest way, the "crazy" way so many times. I can't fix that, nor should I reward it. So, I reward forward progress as long as I feel good about it, if I find myself resenting it, I stop. There is some beauty in knowing I have the right to choose, for so many years I thought I had to help.</p><p></p><p>Hold tight, you are stronger than you think, we are here. Prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="so ready to live, post: 725320, member: 20054"] Still. I'm so sorry. I've had many sleepless nights and faked it the next day...in some context, I feel faking it really helps. It is the going on with the life you have, not the one you wish for...So many times I needed to get out of myself and realize "this is not all there is". Find those few close people who you can be honest with and do so, but not continually. Post here and begin to realize the value of your life. You've done all you can.. Our son is also learning disabled and that has so blurred my ability to discern what enables or not. The old question of what he is truly capable of in supporting himself. I remind myself that regardless he does know right and wrong. He has chosen the easy way, the dishonest way, the "crazy" way so many times. I can't fix that, nor should I reward it. So, I reward forward progress as long as I feel good about it, if I find myself resenting it, I stop. There is some beauty in knowing I have the right to choose, for so many years I thought I had to help. Hold tight, you are stronger than you think, we are here. Prayers. [/QUOTE]
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