So, last night, husband suggested that he get a condo and move out with-difficult child. He would cut way back on his hrs at work, pick up difficult child every day at 5:30, and keep a really strict schedule with-him. He said it would cut back on our income and we'd work around that. I got all teary eyed and said, "But why after all of these yrs when I've been asking you to do this, to cut way back on your hours and stay home, you wouldn't do it for me?" He had no answer. I talked with-a friend today and she said it makes no sense to actually move out with-difficult child. If husband is going to invest that much time in difficult child, we could easily live at home together. She said it sounded passive aggressive. I think so, too. Any thoughts?