I wont go into the details for any of you who haven't had to endure the lengthy long drawn out ramblings of my family insanity. Insanity doesn't quite cut it at times. This is of course regarding my Father, I use this term very loosely. I have only e-mailed him 2x's since being back from his home in Mexico. That was about month ago. I have only responded to 2 of his notes. Pretty short and to the point, no real info from me. Not mean but not overly loving. I am trying to not cause a fight but trying to distance us a little. He wrote to me today though and he really has no clue that their is any distance. He wrote that he is sending the girls some Easter stuff. So, they have not mentioned Grandpa and Grandma ONCE since we have been back. I am not bringing them up, I am trying to slowly delete them from their lives. I have the feeling we will not see them again for a long time if ever. So I am tempted to not tell them who these things are from. Maybe they are from us? I do not feel that bad about not telling them. I do not like lying, but this seems for the best. If one day the girls choose to hate me over this, so be it. I honestly feel it is in their best interest. Maybe if they had a longer or more of a relationship? Maybe if he wasn't a sociopath? I would feel differently Oh, One of the things that kid of made me feel this way was his comment about him selling his house, The President of Puerto Rico came and looked at his home, they think he is trying to get rid of some drug money or launder some money. He stated he doesn't care, he is OK with these things. I am just so sick of anytime I am around him this is what it is like. I am done. Am I doing the right thing, do you guys think?