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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 645337" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Of course you can't, this stuff is beyond anything any of us expected or know how to deal with. We spend a lot of time trying to understand it, and really, usually we can't. It is what it is. We have to learn to accept it, the hardest thing of all. I'm so sorry Esri, this is so hard. I know. It hurts our hearts in a way nothing else has the power to do. </p><p></p><p>What helped me was to get as much support as I could, and it helped so much. Put yourself in whatever supportive environments you can find. Attend an Al Anon meeting or a CoDa meeting, even if it actually doesn't apply to you, just sitting in a room with other folks going through similar things is so helpful. It helps us in so many ways. </p><p></p><p>Today, be especially kind to yourself. Go out to lunch with a girlfriend or your husband, take a drive, get your nails done, have a massage, whatever nourishes you.........take care or YOU. Hang in there Esri, it will get better. It takes time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 645337, member: 13542"] Of course you can't, this stuff is beyond anything any of us expected or know how to deal with. We spend a lot of time trying to understand it, and really, usually we can't. It is what it is. We have to learn to accept it, the hardest thing of all. I'm so sorry Esri, this is so hard. I know. It hurts our hearts in a way nothing else has the power to do. What helped me was to get as much support as I could, and it helped so much. Put yourself in whatever supportive environments you can find. Attend an Al Anon meeting or a CoDa meeting, even if it actually doesn't apply to you, just sitting in a room with other folks going through similar things is so helpful. It helps us in so many ways. Today, be especially kind to yourself. Go out to lunch with a girlfriend or your husband, take a drive, get your nails done, have a massage, whatever nourishes you.........take care or YOU. Hang in there Esri, it will get better. It takes time. [/QUOTE]
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