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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 726389" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>ss. i am sorry. </p><p></p><p>i have a different take. i guess it comes from our time on the foo threads.</p><p></p><p>first. i do feel for your mother. she is a victim of a crime. she was violated (with your dad) and her home was violated. your son is a perpetrator. your parents are the latest in a long line of his victims.</p><p></p><p>except.</p><p></p><p>your mother whether it is pridefulness or long held grievances against you and your husband chose to enable your son over several years. she did so knowing full well what son had done to you. she knew he had hurt you. she knew how he disrespected you. she knew what he had done to others. she permitted him to malign you and she gave consent to this by listenning to him and helping him. was there malice or responsibility here? </p><p></p><p>it seems to me as if she enabled him to hurt you more and more. and she did so for years. </p><p></p><p>in some ways i feel sorry for your son. because he was just being him. i am not saying he does not deserve the consequences. but really. your mother gave him the message he could do and say anything he wanted...and she would support him. until she pulled out the rug.</p><p></p><p>i wonder, really, if your mother's intent was to help your son. or if it was always something else.</p><p></p><p>this is a very sad story all the way around. i did not see it in november. i feel pain for you. a great deal. and actually for your son, a little bit, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 726389, member: 18958"] ss. i am sorry. i have a different take. i guess it comes from our time on the foo threads. first. i do feel for your mother. she is a victim of a crime. she was violated (with your dad) and her home was violated. your son is a perpetrator. your parents are the latest in a long line of his victims. except. your mother whether it is pridefulness or long held grievances against you and your husband chose to enable your son over several years. she did so knowing full well what son had done to you. she knew he had hurt you. she knew how he disrespected you. she knew what he had done to others. she permitted him to malign you and she gave consent to this by listenning to him and helping him. was there malice or responsibility here? it seems to me as if she enabled him to hurt you more and more. and she did so for years. in some ways i feel sorry for your son. because he was just being him. i am not saying he does not deserve the consequences. but really. your mother gave him the message he could do and say anything he wanted...and she would support him. until she pulled out the rug. i wonder, really, if your mother's intent was to help your son. or if it was always something else. this is a very sad story all the way around. i did not see it in november. i feel pain for you. a great deal. and actually for your son, a little bit, too. [/QUOTE]
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