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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 39211" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Janet...</p><p></p><p>What DDD is saying isnt a really legal way of doing things but it is the safe way of doing things for the child. Danielle and Ant would be committing welfare fraud if they continued to receive benefits and they really didnt have Kaleb living with them. Not your problem! </p><p></p><p>Essentially what you would be doing is telling them that you will turn a blind eye to whatever they want to say to whomever they want to say it to but you will keep the child and raise him. If they want to lie to Social Services and tell them that they have the baby...well its their lie. </p><p></p><p>Now eventually you may be able to show a court proof that you have had the child so long and if the parents get caught doing fraud...well...hey...that wont look good either so you might be able to back door your way into permanent custody. For all you know eventually both parents may end up in jail or simply walk away. Danielle could end up with 14 more kids and not even look back. Number one...her days on welfare are soon going to be numbered. There is a 5 year cap. She will be getting desperate soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 39211, member: 1514"] Janet... What DDD is saying isnt a really legal way of doing things but it is the safe way of doing things for the child. Danielle and Ant would be committing welfare fraud if they continued to receive benefits and they really didnt have Kaleb living with them. Not your problem! Essentially what you would be doing is telling them that you will turn a blind eye to whatever they want to say to whomever they want to say it to but you will keep the child and raise him. If they want to lie to Social Services and tell them that they have the baby...well its their lie. Now eventually you may be able to show a court proof that you have had the child so long and if the parents get caught doing fraud...well...hey...that wont look good either so you might be able to back door your way into permanent custody. For all you know eventually both parents may end up in jail or simply walk away. Danielle could end up with 14 more kids and not even look back. Number one...her days on welfare are soon going to be numbered. There is a 5 year cap. She will be getting desperate soon. [/QUOTE]
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