As you all know (and I apologize for the repetition) 35 has taken me to the brink lately and I am fighting to get back to normal and I think it's going to work. I'm so stressed out that I've been telling him things the way they are an d not how he wants me to talk (all positive) and that makes him tell me to go to hello and to hang up on me. I'm so fed up I want to scream. He doesn't do anything I suggest and that's fine, but he SWEARS at me for suggesting these things and that's NOT fine. I digress: I do have a question about cars. My husband and I always purchase old cars, money down. He's a mechanic so they run for a good three years if not longer so I know nothing about buying a new car. Ok, here's the question. Can 35 sell his Camaro that he bought while married? He claims he can't. He may be renting to own it, but I think he bought it and still owes on it. I'm trying to get him to sell some of his stuff to save up for a new lawyer because his father is threatening to cut off the money and I believe he will. My son has no extra money for his case. I gave him suggestions on saving...move to a cheap apartment, sell his car, get rid of the internet, get rid of the cell phone for now...if he's t hat desperate to keep his son, he needs some extra money even at a risk to his personal comfort. He keeps saying "I can't" or "That isn't going to pay for a lawyer." But the car? I don't get it. It's very impractical, not made for long distances and eats up gas. Does anyone agree with him or can anyone explain to me what he might mean? Today he swore at me and hung up which means he's on his own for a few days as I am "grounding" him for bad language. He was at work and said, "People can hear me. YOU'RE going to get me fired." I said, "35, that's ridiculous. I don't control what you choose to say" and that's w hat set him off. I need a few days off. Maybe I can just continue to tell him the hard truths and he'll stop calling me because he doesn't want reality from me. Back to the car. I'm curious. Anyone know what he's talking about?