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Any Success Stories or Do "Difficult Children" Ever Come Around?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714858" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. I am sorry for your pain and like you, as a dog lover, worried for the dogs. Knowing me, I would probably take them in. Son...I would not take in a 29 year old man who refuses to try being responsible.</p><p></p><p>You have added your post to the end of a long, older thread and it may not be seen. I advise you to post your own post. Click on "new post" and start, or click on a moderater's handle and ask them to make this a new post instead of the end of someone elses post.</p><p></p><p>Trust me, you will get good feedback on enabling. The dogs are innocent and can not survive without help. Unless your son is severely mentally disabled...he, on the other hand, can take care of himself...he is a not-so-young 29 year old man who...not sure if i got this right...refused to park his truck in a garage so he is being evicted??? If so, this is his fault and a really silly issue to fight on his part. He blew a good place to live for almost free. </p><p></p><p>But we all have grown kids who tend to self sabatage and burn bridges. We wouldnt be here if we didnt. Some are more self destructive than others. There is one universal truth: our "help" doesnt help. And most of us are in various stages of letting go but if you believe in a higher power, give your son's welfare yo God.</p><p></p><p>More will come along. Start taking care of YOU first. Your son is too old to keep being rescued. One day he will HAVE to stand on his own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714858, member: 1550"] Hi. I am sorry for your pain and like you, as a dog lover, worried for the dogs. Knowing me, I would probably take them in. Son...I would not take in a 29 year old man who refuses to try being responsible. You have added your post to the end of a long, older thread and it may not be seen. I advise you to post your own post. Click on "new post" and start, or click on a moderater's handle and ask them to make this a new post instead of the end of someone elses post. Trust me, you will get good feedback on enabling. The dogs are innocent and can not survive without help. Unless your son is severely mentally disabled...he, on the other hand, can take care of himself...he is a not-so-young 29 year old man who...not sure if i got this right...refused to park his truck in a garage so he is being evicted??? If so, this is his fault and a really silly issue to fight on his part. He blew a good place to live for almost free. But we all have grown kids who tend to self sabatage and burn bridges. We wouldnt be here if we didnt. Some are more self destructive than others. There is one universal truth: our "help" doesnt help. And most of us are in various stages of letting go but if you believe in a higher power, give your son's welfare yo God. More will come along. Start taking care of YOU first. Your son is too old to keep being rescued. One day he will HAVE to stand on his own. [/QUOTE]
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