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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 655979" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome Madelyn,</p><p>I am so sorry for what you are going through. You are not alone.</p><p>I know he is your son but you really need to call the police if he is threatening you or damaging your property. I called the police several times on my son.</p><p>He needs to be held accountable for his actions. Do NOT feel sorry for him, he has made choices that have led to him not being able to see his children.</p><p>My son was also raised in a Christian home but that did not stop him from lying and telling people that his dad and I beat him. One thing you must understand is our Difficult Child (difficult children) will say and do anything to get people to feel sorry for them. It's manipulation.</p><p>Your safety should be your top priority. [USER=17244]@DoneDad[/USER] is right, get a restraining order and do not be afraid to call the police.</p><p>You shouldn't have to sell your home, your home is the one place you should feel safe. I do understand your thought process though. I know what I'm going to say will hurt, but your son should be in jail for what he has done. I know you love him, I get that, we all get that. There is not one parent on this site that does not love their child. The point is, our children are adults and they are no longer our responsibilty and they need to be accountable for the choices they make. It is not good for you or son if you continue to enable him and that is what you are doing by not calling the police and letting him live in your home. I'm glad he moved out, that is one less thing you will have to do.</p><p>Perhaps you can see your grandchildren in a neutral atmoshphere, a local park, a McDonald's that has a play area, the zoo, just any place that you and their mother can meet.</p><p>Stay close to this site, we are here to support you. Let us know how things are going.</p><p>((HUGS)) to you.........................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 655979, member: 18516"] Welcome Madelyn, I am so sorry for what you are going through. You are not alone. I know he is your son but you really need to call the police if he is threatening you or damaging your property. I called the police several times on my son. He needs to be held accountable for his actions. Do NOT feel sorry for him, he has made choices that have led to him not being able to see his children. My son was also raised in a Christian home but that did not stop him from lying and telling people that his dad and I beat him. One thing you must understand is our Difficult Child (difficult children) will say and do anything to get people to feel sorry for them. It's manipulation. Your safety should be your top priority. [USER=17244]@DoneDad[/USER] is right, get a restraining order and do not be afraid to call the police. You shouldn't have to sell your home, your home is the one place you should feel safe. I do understand your thought process though. I know what I'm going to say will hurt, but your son should be in jail for what he has done. I know you love him, I get that, we all get that. There is not one parent on this site that does not love their child. The point is, our children are adults and they are no longer our responsibilty and they need to be accountable for the choices they make. It is not good for you or son if you continue to enable him and that is what you are doing by not calling the police and letting him live in your home. I'm glad he moved out, that is one less thing you will have to do. Perhaps you can see your grandchildren in a neutral atmoshphere, a local park, a McDonald's that has a play area, the zoo, just any place that you and their mother can meet. Stay close to this site, we are here to support you. Let us know how things are going. ((HUGS)) to you......................... [/QUOTE]
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