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Are you too nice? Good article.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 663351" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Yeah, I used to be that way, but often when I tried to help my family members I got accused of causing more trouble than helping so I stopped. I meant well, but was so screwed up myself early in my adult life that I didn't go about trying to help in the right way. I still had a strong sick codependency and did it with my husband and then my kids. I'm not great at saying "no" even now, but I've gotten much better and if people get angry, I can more easily shrug it off.</p><p></p><p>I really liked the article so I thought I'd share it <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 663351, member: 1550"] Yeah, I used to be that way, but often when I tried to help my family members I got accused of causing more trouble than helping so I stopped. I meant well, but was so screwed up myself early in my adult life that I didn't go about trying to help in the right way. I still had a strong sick codependency and did it with my husband and then my kids. I'm not great at saying "no" even now, but I've gotten much better and if people get angry, I can more easily shrug it off. I really liked the article so I thought I'd share it :) [/QUOTE]
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