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Argh! Kid is a mess. And very volatile mess for that
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 659788" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>It is a relief. Apparently not even relationships were shattered. It is lucky he had plans with these friends, if he had been with some of his younger friends or with Joy and his friends, it could had turned uglier. The friends he was with are considerably older and have more patience than his peers would likely had shown. In fact Ache just picked me up from work, because we were hit with thunderstorm and I had rode by bike to work this morning and didn't fancy riding it back home in this weather nor waiting at work and on our way back home I overheard a call from one of these friends he spend Midsummer with. He asked if Ache would join them at the golf course at Sunday or was he still to busy tantruming to take a break for anything else. Ache told him he has moved to three tantrum at day schedule but he can postpone his before lunch tantrum to evening if the weather is nice and join them.</p><p></p><p>I did bite my lip and pretended I didn't heard and didn't ask if this schedule was very new development or if he meant he has scheduled three tantrums a day, six hours each, because I haven't really noticed the breaks between his tantrums this week.</p><p></p><p>Today there has been also first material damage, a vase from our patio table is shattered. Ache tells me that a kettlebell did hit it, but again I didn't ask how that happened considering the table is not in the area he tends to train if he trains outside. Instead I just asked him to make sure there are no pieces left to break anyone's feet. I liked that vase a lot and that is why this brings back all those times, when I had a conflict with Ache and next day found something of mine missing or broken or my car tires slashed. But he hasn't done that in a long time, nor did we had any bigger disagreement yesterday or this morning. And he used to do those stunts so that there was no evidence and always blamed someone else. Now he isn't even trying to blame the dogs while that could be totally plausible explanation. So I'm leaning to accident during temper tantrum more than anything.</p><p></p><p>While I'm not happy with the vase, like I said, I really liked it and it was a wedding gift, I guess that phone call I overheard was hopeful. Both that he hasn't burnt those bridges and finding his sense of self irony. Where motivational quotes and positive thinking messages are a sign that things are getting worse quickly, sense of self irony and ability tends to be one of the first signs of him starting to pull himself together again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 659788, member: 14557"] It is a relief. Apparently not even relationships were shattered. It is lucky he had plans with these friends, if he had been with some of his younger friends or with Joy and his friends, it could had turned uglier. The friends he was with are considerably older and have more patience than his peers would likely had shown. In fact Ache just picked me up from work, because we were hit with thunderstorm and I had rode by bike to work this morning and didn't fancy riding it back home in this weather nor waiting at work and on our way back home I overheard a call from one of these friends he spend Midsummer with. He asked if Ache would join them at the golf course at Sunday or was he still to busy tantruming to take a break for anything else. Ache told him he has moved to three tantrum at day schedule but he can postpone his before lunch tantrum to evening if the weather is nice and join them. I did bite my lip and pretended I didn't heard and didn't ask if this schedule was very new development or if he meant he has scheduled three tantrums a day, six hours each, because I haven't really noticed the breaks between his tantrums this week. Today there has been also first material damage, a vase from our patio table is shattered. Ache tells me that a kettlebell did hit it, but again I didn't ask how that happened considering the table is not in the area he tends to train if he trains outside. Instead I just asked him to make sure there are no pieces left to break anyone's feet. I liked that vase a lot and that is why this brings back all those times, when I had a conflict with Ache and next day found something of mine missing or broken or my car tires slashed. But he hasn't done that in a long time, nor did we had any bigger disagreement yesterday or this morning. And he used to do those stunts so that there was no evidence and always blamed someone else. Now he isn't even trying to blame the dogs while that could be totally plausible explanation. So I'm leaning to accident during temper tantrum more than anything. While I'm not happy with the vase, like I said, I really liked it and it was a wedding gift, I guess that phone call I overheard was hopeful. Both that he hasn't burnt those bridges and finding his sense of self irony. Where motivational quotes and positive thinking messages are a sign that things are getting worse quickly, sense of self irony and ability tends to be one of the first signs of him starting to pull himself together again. [/QUOTE]
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