Ok- I will try to get this in short and sweet as possible. difficult child--11yrs. diagnosis-adhd since 4 holding his own since 1st grade--no MAJOR issues--on medications had aide until 3rd grade --4th no aide this year 5th grade--tried no medications first week of school/no good--put back on a week ago Had major problem at school and soccer practice/ not on soccer team anymore-- was thrown off-- pretty major issues--being sexually inappropriate/threatening the kid--- I have posted this before husband and I were in shock--but went to get help right away through my niece -- who used to work for division of youth and family services--got the name of this place for counseling-- thought we were going to a "psychiatrist" today-- but now I realize he is only a psychologist-- with a phd Here is the thing-- when I met him I had very good vibes-- liked him right away--he spoke with me first-- then he spoke with difficult child--but had me stay for first session-because he said kids are less anxious that way difficult child really liked him-- the guy has over 20 years experience there is someone in the center who can prescribe medications if needed- plus difficult child has nuerologist do you think this is a good enough start with these issues? I mean this guy has over 20 years experience with adhd/aspergers/ anxiety issues etc. if he feels difficult child is something else-- would probably point me in the right direction?