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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 668069" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Okay, well there is certainly no reason for your to support her at her age, though giving a child a hand if they are otherwise taking care of themselves is not a bad thing in and of itself. </p><p> </p><p>I guess, what I'm really saying is that you might disagree with her lifestyle and you are in no way obligated to support it. So if you feel that strongly about her piercings and she is spending money on them, why should you pay her rent so she has the ability to use other money on that in the future. What has happened is now in the past.</p><p> </p><p>In the long run, if she's not suffering from mental problems, addictions, hurting your grandchild or herself, try your best to focus on the best and ignore those things you dislike. Don't allow yourself to be disrespected, but she is an adult and her choices are her own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 668069, member: 17309"] Okay, well there is certainly no reason for your to support her at her age, though giving a child a hand if they are otherwise taking care of themselves is not a bad thing in and of itself. I guess, what I'm really saying is that you might disagree with her lifestyle and you are in no way obligated to support it. So if you feel that strongly about her piercings and she is spending money on them, why should you pay her rent so she has the ability to use other money on that in the future. What has happened is now in the past. In the long run, if she's not suffering from mental problems, addictions, hurting your grandchild or herself, try your best to focus on the best and ignore those things you dislike. Don't allow yourself to be disrespected, but she is an adult and her choices are her own. [/QUOTE]
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