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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 668071" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Welcome here.</p><p>Do you remember being young and thinking how old fashion your possibly racist and living-in-the-past your grandparents and maybe even parents were? I do.</p><p></p><p>The world changes and I am f ortunate enough to change with the change. Our young adult k ids DO NOT think it is bad to be either have same sex relationships and transgender is also accepted. I have a 19 year old daughter from heaven itself...she is so sweet...but she really gets upset if somebody says gays and transgenders are sick or sinners or anything of the like. And she's one of the best kids out there and wants to be in criminal justice (a cop). None of my adult kids think that is a big deal. The girls in particular support it. Also, tatooes are very "in." I know older people who get them. What YOU agree with about your daughter chooses to do with her appearance is really in the none-of-your-business category. These things you are upset with are pretty common and accepted now in the under 50 crowd. My 40 year old boss showed us a new tatoo on her calve yesterday and plans to get more.</p><p></p><p>You change with the times or you don't and get upset, but time doesn't go backward.</p><p></p><p>I would never even talk to her about the piercings or tatooes and she has every right tok date a transgender person. It won't help her or you if you try to argue values. She is growing up in a different era and her world is different from yours, like it or not. HOWEVER, you don't have to support her. She is an adult. You don't have to let her live in your house.</p><p></p><p>I would probably cut out the fighting. It does no good. Just stand your ground.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 668071, member: 1550"] Welcome here. Do you remember being young and thinking how old fashion your possibly racist and living-in-the-past your grandparents and maybe even parents were? I do. The world changes and I am f ortunate enough to change with the change. Our young adult k ids DO NOT think it is bad to be either have same sex relationships and transgender is also accepted. I have a 19 year old daughter from heaven itself...she is so sweet...but she really gets upset if somebody says gays and transgenders are sick or sinners or anything of the like. And she's one of the best kids out there and wants to be in criminal justice (a cop). None of my adult kids think that is a big deal. The girls in particular support it. Also, tatooes are very "in." I know older people who get them. What YOU agree with about your daughter chooses to do with her appearance is really in the none-of-your-business category. These things you are upset with are pretty common and accepted now in the under 50 crowd. My 40 year old boss showed us a new tatoo on her calve yesterday and plans to get more. You change with the times or you don't and get upset, but time doesn't go backward. I would never even talk to her about the piercings or tatooes and she has every right tok date a transgender person. It won't help her or you if you try to argue values. She is growing up in a different era and her world is different from yours, like it or not. HOWEVER, you don't have to support her. She is an adult. You don't have to let her live in your house. I would probably cut out the fighting. It does no good. Just stand your ground. [/QUOTE]
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