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<blockquote data-quote="bluebell" data-source="post: 625889" data-attributes="member: 16761"><p>Hello, I'm back! Rather than start a new thread I'll continue this one since I'm not a regular and people may not remember my story. difficult child snuck in an hour after curfew last night and husband went to check on him and there was some drunk kid 'writhing' (this is what husband said, I'm not really able to picture it) on his floor. I guess difficult child wasn't even going to ask, and it was a weeknight and that's against 1 of his 4 rules to have friends on weeknights. So husband wanted him gone and difficult child wasn't having it, husband kicked the kid out (kid was so drunk I had to lead him to the door) and an argument ensued. difficult child went totally ballistic,calling us all POS, took his shirt off and started pushing us around, left for a while and came back demanding to know what was going to happen to him. Unfortunately, my husband slapped him when he grabbed daughter. He's never been violent with her and it threw him for a loop. So we couldn't call the cops, they'd haul husband away again and this time it would be a felony (he detained him back in August and got a DA charge for marks). I'm so mad at husband - he cannot control himself, I know he thinks he is but he CANNOT TOUCH HIM. PERIOD. We told him nothing would happen - what do we have to take from him and we obviously have lost complete control of him - we are on a waiting game till 18 when we can get a restraining order. We also told him if he follows the rules and respects us what he can expect. He raged until <strong>4am</strong>. While I was working all night on an IT project that I've been up for three days straight and trying to get systems up for Monday morning. I begged him to let me concentrate, he just raged about how I am a sellout. It's madness I tell you.</p><p></p><p>Who does this? Who kicks their son's drunk 18 year old friend out on the street and tells their kid they are getting a restraining order for them on their 18th birthday? I cannot believe this is my life. </p><p></p><p>On a positive note, last week he passed 3 of 4 of his GED tests - supposed to take math Thursday. Of course, he didn't study at all, so I can't say it was hard work that resulted in the passes. He's just smart and had to show up. It's hard to congratulate someone for something they didn't work for. But of course he is demanding something for that too. His juvenile intake for the possession is tomorrow. I guess we're supposed to go stick up for him again. Or else he will terrorize us when we get home. We are supposed to go on vacation on May 10th. It has been paid for, I'm wondering how in the world we possibly can?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bluebell, post: 625889, member: 16761"] Hello, I'm back! Rather than start a new thread I'll continue this one since I'm not a regular and people may not remember my story. difficult child snuck in an hour after curfew last night and husband went to check on him and there was some drunk kid 'writhing' (this is what husband said, I'm not really able to picture it) on his floor. I guess difficult child wasn't even going to ask, and it was a weeknight and that's against 1 of his 4 rules to have friends on weeknights. So husband wanted him gone and difficult child wasn't having it, husband kicked the kid out (kid was so drunk I had to lead him to the door) and an argument ensued. difficult child went totally ballistic,calling us all POS, took his shirt off and started pushing us around, left for a while and came back demanding to know what was going to happen to him. Unfortunately, my husband slapped him when he grabbed daughter. He's never been violent with her and it threw him for a loop. So we couldn't call the cops, they'd haul husband away again and this time it would be a felony (he detained him back in August and got a DA charge for marks). I'm so mad at husband - he cannot control himself, I know he thinks he is but he CANNOT TOUCH HIM. PERIOD. We told him nothing would happen - what do we have to take from him and we obviously have lost complete control of him - we are on a waiting game till 18 when we can get a restraining order. We also told him if he follows the rules and respects us what he can expect. He raged until [B]4am[/B]. While I was working all night on an IT project that I've been up for three days straight and trying to get systems up for Monday morning. I begged him to let me concentrate, he just raged about how I am a sellout. It's madness I tell you. Who does this? Who kicks their son's drunk 18 year old friend out on the street and tells their kid they are getting a restraining order for them on their 18th birthday? I cannot believe this is my life. On a positive note, last week he passed 3 of 4 of his GED tests - supposed to take math Thursday. Of course, he didn't study at all, so I can't say it was hard work that resulted in the passes. He's just smart and had to show up. It's hard to congratulate someone for something they didn't work for. But of course he is demanding something for that too. His juvenile intake for the possession is tomorrow. I guess we're supposed to go stick up for him again. Or else he will terrorize us when we get home. We are supposed to go on vacation on May 10th. It has been paid for, I'm wondering how in the world we possibly can? [/QUOTE]
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