I wish you luck and will say a prayer for you.
THAT is one sign that he is moving forward in a positive direction. His continued stay won't just be about others, although he doesn't understand that now. It will be to his benefit also. But the ability to see beyond one's self is huge.And for once he wanted it to be about others.
Hi lovemyson. The answer, is this: He will solve this for himself, and from this challenge he will grow.And how will he ever move forward if he stays there?