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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 636166" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Your cellphone may have the ability to vocally record. This could help you get the threats on audio - giving you away to go around the manipulations. I feel so bad for you. I hear you on the self blame game but honestly one day you have to realize you did the best you could with children who, for <em>whatever reason, </em>are damaged. Some day, you are going to have to find away to let yourself off the hook <em>. </em>The sooner the better. When you are feeling overwhelming guilt, you will most likely be over-protective, too trusting and continue to live a life of <em>reacting.</em> Although your children are young , I still believe that a healthy dose of detachment, at least to the outcomes, is necessary here. </p><p>Frankly, I think <em>you </em>need therapy to help YOU with strategies for what is both best for you and your children. I just went to a convention and there where people from domestic violence centers there. They are now realizing the REAL pain of abuse of parents and family members. They said that if I needed help I could get counseling on a sliding scale basis. Please call your State Domestic Violence Hotline and see what services are available to you. You deserve better than you are getting and I hope some day you come to realize that!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 636166, member: 18366"] Your cellphone may have the ability to vocally record. This could help you get the threats on audio - giving you away to go around the manipulations. I feel so bad for you. I hear you on the self blame game but honestly one day you have to realize you did the best you could with children who, for [I]whatever reason, [/I]are damaged. Some day, you are going to have to find away to let yourself off the hook [I]. [/I]The sooner the better. When you are feeling overwhelming guilt, you will most likely be over-protective, too trusting and continue to live a life of [I]reacting.[/I] Although your children are young , I still believe that a healthy dose of detachment, at least to the outcomes, is necessary here. Frankly, I think [I]you [/I]need therapy to help YOU with strategies for what is both best for you and your children. I just went to a convention and there where people from domestic violence centers there. They are now realizing the REAL pain of abuse of parents and family members. They said that if I needed help I could get counseling on a sliding scale basis. Please call your State Domestic Violence Hotline and see what services are available to you. You deserve better than you are getting and I hope some day you come to realize that! [/QUOTE]
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