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<blockquote data-quote="GoodluckGirl" data-source="post: 704859" data-attributes="member: 21127"><p>Three of us had 2am phone calls last night we chose not to answer because we assumed it was dumb drama. It was. Difficult child received a mysterious threatening phone call and needed to warn us to lock our doors because someone is after her. </p><p></p><p>I've tried to meet up with her a couple times away from our home but she keeps cancelling. She won't show up for MHMR intake (first come, first serve only) so I'm quietly stressing for her over that because I don't think she has her jobs anymore. She certainly isn't at work as far as we can tell.</p><p></p><p>My husband tracked her down on Saturday night because she showed up to little sisters job with the roommate in tow asking for a food discount and to be served beer. Little sister kicked her out and called me. Husband went to check on whether difficult child was drinking and driving (underage) as the car title is still in his name even though her insurance is her own. I asked him to let her know not to contact her sister unless I have approved them hanging out and if she shows up at her work again I will take out a restraining order. Little sister has a job that will fire her for having friends drop by.</p><p></p><p>In the last 10 days Difficult Child has managed to have two altercations at her seasonal job. She claims a woman called the police on her and falsely accused her of hitting her car and a coworker came over to her apartment, let himself in while she was in the shower, came into the bathroom and opened the curtain on her.</p><p>She lost her debit card. She doesn't seem to be sleeping much at all. Every contact she makes involves mystery people who are posing a danger to her in some way... so there is stuff I'm leaving out but my husband is keeping a record.</p><p></p><p>My heart is breaking. I keep thinking I should have done more for her somehow even though I know I was a good mom to her. I can't force her to behave and be who I expect her to be. She gets to chose the life she lives. I desperately want to force her at moments with what little power we have. This morning I considered just taking her car until she complies with going in for the MHMR visit, deposits her paychecks, tells me she understands she has to stay away from her siblings while she is unmedicated and unsupervised, and goes to the damn courthouse to get her car title moved into her own name... I want to force her to do the 'adult' stuff she bragged about on facebook.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GoodluckGirl, post: 704859, member: 21127"] Three of us had 2am phone calls last night we chose not to answer because we assumed it was dumb drama. It was. Difficult child received a mysterious threatening phone call and needed to warn us to lock our doors because someone is after her. I've tried to meet up with her a couple times away from our home but she keeps cancelling. She won't show up for MHMR intake (first come, first serve only) so I'm quietly stressing for her over that because I don't think she has her jobs anymore. She certainly isn't at work as far as we can tell. My husband tracked her down on Saturday night because she showed up to little sisters job with the roommate in tow asking for a food discount and to be served beer. Little sister kicked her out and called me. Husband went to check on whether difficult child was drinking and driving (underage) as the car title is still in his name even though her insurance is her own. I asked him to let her know not to contact her sister unless I have approved them hanging out and if she shows up at her work again I will take out a restraining order. Little sister has a job that will fire her for having friends drop by. In the last 10 days Difficult Child has managed to have two altercations at her seasonal job. She claims a woman called the police on her and falsely accused her of hitting her car and a coworker came over to her apartment, let himself in while she was in the shower, came into the bathroom and opened the curtain on her. She lost her debit card. She doesn't seem to be sleeping much at all. Every contact she makes involves mystery people who are posing a danger to her in some way... so there is stuff I'm leaving out but my husband is keeping a record. My heart is breaking. I keep thinking I should have done more for her somehow even though I know I was a good mom to her. I can't force her to behave and be who I expect her to be. She gets to chose the life she lives. I desperately want to force her at moments with what little power we have. This morning I considered just taking her car until she complies with going in for the MHMR visit, deposits her paychecks, tells me she understands she has to stay away from her siblings while she is unmedicated and unsupervised, and goes to the damn courthouse to get her car title moved into her own name... I want to force her to do the 'adult' stuff she bragged about on facebook. [/QUOTE]
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