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At my Wits end - sorry I've not been here!
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<blockquote data-quote="Lost in sadness" data-source="post: 712256" data-attributes="member: 21056"><p>Thank you all for your replies. You all give me so much strength. Today I feel so sad. I tried to have a weekend away with some girlfriends, something I have never done and all I felt was my stomach churning with pain. I don't seem to sleep anymore and appear to have developed an anxiety I cannot shift. I am worried I will never feel happy or 'normal' again. My life is ruined and tarnished by the worry and pain for my son. I returned home and 10 minutes after being in the house a lady came to my front door that I had never met. She introduced herself and said she was the mum of a friend of my sons and he had been living with her for a number of months before she asked him to leave a while back. She came to return some belongings he had left there, some post which was a court summons (argh!!) and to tell me that my son has stolen her daughters brand new iPhone. I am devastated!! What the hell has he become. The kindness of someone, people that fed him and put a roof over his head and he repays them this way. My heart is breaking. I sent him a message and he denied it saying he had been robbed f the phone and he kept trying to call me and I just could not speak to him! I've seen for my own eyes on his social media messages where he was trying to sell it! (yes, I am still reading). I have also been on his email and he appears to have applied for a load of jobs and try to make peace with his grandparents asking if he can go and stay there. I know what the answer will be. I just do not know what to believe anymore. He says he is trying to change things and he is scared for his future and wants to be a better person but yet when I read his social media stuff it shows him still trying to arrange hotels, parties, girls and weed. I just do not know what to believe. Is he doing this behavior because there is nothing else and it numbs his sad life and if I gave him a home he would stop, or are the texts to me just lip service in the hope I will do this (let him come home) and he will carry on and my life will be hell. I am just so so confused. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/thumbsdown.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":thumbsdown:" title="thumbsdown :thumbsdown:" data-shortname=":thumbsdown:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/cry.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":cry:" title="cry :cry:" data-shortname=":cry:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lost in sadness, post: 712256, member: 21056"] Thank you all for your replies. You all give me so much strength. Today I feel so sad. I tried to have a weekend away with some girlfriends, something I have never done and all I felt was my stomach churning with pain. I don't seem to sleep anymore and appear to have developed an anxiety I cannot shift. I am worried I will never feel happy or 'normal' again. My life is ruined and tarnished by the worry and pain for my son. I returned home and 10 minutes after being in the house a lady came to my front door that I had never met. She introduced herself and said she was the mum of a friend of my sons and he had been living with her for a number of months before she asked him to leave a while back. She came to return some belongings he had left there, some post which was a court summons (argh!!) and to tell me that my son has stolen her daughters brand new iPhone. I am devastated!! What the hell has he become. The kindness of someone, people that fed him and put a roof over his head and he repays them this way. My heart is breaking. I sent him a message and he denied it saying he had been robbed f the phone and he kept trying to call me and I just could not speak to him! I've seen for my own eyes on his social media messages where he was trying to sell it! (yes, I am still reading). I have also been on his email and he appears to have applied for a load of jobs and try to make peace with his grandparents asking if he can go and stay there. I know what the answer will be. I just do not know what to believe anymore. He says he is trying to change things and he is scared for his future and wants to be a better person but yet when I read his social media stuff it shows him still trying to arrange hotels, parties, girls and weed. I just do not know what to believe. Is he doing this behavior because there is nothing else and it numbs his sad life and if I gave him a home he would stop, or are the texts to me just lip service in the hope I will do this (let him come home) and he will carry on and my life will be hell. I am just so so confused. :thumbsdown::cry: [/QUOTE]
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