Tomorrow is the court date for my stepson (who should be in a residential facility). My husband ,in his usual manner, seems to be headed for another drinking bender. My fear is that the judge will leave this boy in our home, my husband will continue to drink and I'll STILL be the one dealing with the entire situation alone. Between my stepson's behaviors and my husband's drinking...I can't take anymore. I hate feeling like a victim, I understand that I am the only one who can change my situation, but I don't know how to untangle myself from the entire sick family.