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At the end of my rope and just lost...
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 629808" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Hi lil and warm hugs for you. Your son sounds exactly like my son between 2008 and 2010. I wrote up all kinds of contracts like the one you posted. Honestly Lil they were not worth the paper they were written on. </p><p></p><p>But this is a process. One strong piece of advice: stop the flow of money. Stop it completely. </p><p></p><p>And keep things as simple as you can. Your son can walk or ride a bike to work. He does not have to have a car. And if he wants to smoke, he can buy his own cigarettes. You buy your own right? Your son is an adult. He is no longer a precious three year old. </p><p></p><p>The sooner you learn how to stop, the faster things will start to change, for you and your son. </p><p></p><p>Learn how to stop. Make it your second full time job. </p><p></p><p>Your son is likely doing way more I'm the way of substances than you have a clue about. I am sorry to say that but it is likely true. And he will not change until he has to change. </p><p></p><p>Learn how to stop lil. It is truly the one thing you do have control over. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 629808, member: 17542"] Hi lil and warm hugs for you. Your son sounds exactly like my son between 2008 and 2010. I wrote up all kinds of contracts like the one you posted. Honestly Lil they were not worth the paper they were written on. But this is a process. One strong piece of advice: stop the flow of money. Stop it completely. And keep things as simple as you can. Your son can walk or ride a bike to work. He does not have to have a car. And if he wants to smoke, he can buy his own cigarettes. You buy your own right? Your son is an adult. He is no longer a precious three year old. The sooner you learn how to stop, the faster things will start to change, for you and your son. Learn how to stop. Make it your second full time job. Your son is likely doing way more I'm the way of substances than you have a clue about. I am sorry to say that but it is likely true. And he will not change until he has to change. Learn how to stop lil. It is truly the one thing you do have control over. Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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