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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 664931" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Yes. Retire. Have a good life. Stop taking care of them I'm assuming all are adults. You are older now. Most older parents have kids who worry about them. Does yours?</p><p>Your husband is 76. Don't you want life to be about you and him now?</p><p>All your money and worry hasn't helped. What about after you are gone? They have to realize the free ride stops and now is a good time.</p><p>Who bought daughter those cars?</p><p>At this point in both your lives I would not give any of them a dime. They're all to old to be supported by mom. I would stop the advice and limit contact, take a cruise with husband and let them grow up or not. I get angry when 40 plus adults still accept money and support from elderly parents. Very selfish.</p><p>It's your time now. Whether you decide t9o finally enjoy these golden years are up to you but that is my personal recommendation.</p><p>Sorry for your pain. Detachment for your situation would h err l.p. you all in my opinion.</p><p>Hugs!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 664931, member: 1550"] Yes. Retire. Have a good life. Stop taking care of them I'm assuming all are adults. You are older now. Most older parents have kids who worry about them. Does yours? Your husband is 76. Don't you want life to be about you and him now? All your money and worry hasn't helped. What about after you are gone? They have to realize the free ride stops and now is a good time. Who bought daughter those cars? At this point in both your lives I would not give any of them a dime. They're all to old to be supported by mom. I would stop the advice and limit contact, take a cruise with husband and let them grow up or not. I get angry when 40 plus adults still accept money and support from elderly parents. Very selfish. It's your time now. Whether you decide t9o finally enjoy these golden years are up to you but that is my personal recommendation. Sorry for your pain. Detachment for your situation would h err l.p. you all in my opinion. Hugs!! [/QUOTE]
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