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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 737524" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Bluebell,</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you reached out. Good to see on here again, I just wish it was a better situation. I'm so sorry for what you have been dealing with.</p><p></p><p></p><p>This is scary. My son used to threaten to kill me in my sleep. While I think it's mostly their anger talking, I also think it's needs to be taken seriously, especially when drugs or alcohol are involved.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I'm glad you asked him to leave your home, that was a very wise thing to do.</p><p></p><p></p><p>If he's not making the payments and since you co-signed for the car, then you have every right to keep it. If he really wants the car then I would check into how you can get your name off the loan and let him deal with it on his own. You might also check into what would be involved in selling the car. You might lose some money but it may be an option.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I think this is a very wise decision. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Another wise decision. </p><p></p><p>Your first priority needs to be safety for you, your husband and your home.</p><p></p><p>You are doing all the right things Bluebell. I know how hard it is, I've been there. My son was ordered out of our home and into a group home when he was a teenager because he was so out of control and threatening me.</p><p></p><p>I think your suspicions about your son using drugs again is probably accurate. I know when my son is using his behavior can be very ugly and violent. </p><p></p><p>Please, please take care of yourself. Your health is important. Try and find some ways to relax and unwind. Take a drive in the country and stop for lunch somewhere you've never been. Take a picnic to the park. Go to a museum and look at some beautiful art. Go to the zoo. Find something that allows your mind to focus on something other than your son.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting and let us know how you are doing.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 737524, member: 18516"] Hi Bluebell, I'm glad you reached out. Good to see on here again, I just wish it was a better situation. I'm so sorry for what you have been dealing with. This is scary. My son used to threaten to kill me in my sleep. While I think it's mostly their anger talking, I also think it's needs to be taken seriously, especially when drugs or alcohol are involved. I'm glad you asked him to leave your home, that was a very wise thing to do. If he's not making the payments and since you co-signed for the car, then you have every right to keep it. If he really wants the car then I would check into how you can get your name off the loan and let him deal with it on his own. You might also check into what would be involved in selling the car. You might lose some money but it may be an option. I think this is a very wise decision. Another wise decision. Your first priority needs to be safety for you, your husband and your home. You are doing all the right things Bluebell. I know how hard it is, I've been there. My son was ordered out of our home and into a group home when he was a teenager because he was so out of control and threatening me. I think your suspicions about your son using drugs again is probably accurate. I know when my son is using his behavior can be very ugly and violent. Please, please take care of yourself. Your health is important. Try and find some ways to relax and unwind. Take a drive in the country and stop for lunch somewhere you've never been. Take a picnic to the park. Go to a museum and look at some beautiful art. Go to the zoo. Find something that allows your mind to focus on something other than your son. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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