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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 737569" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You are doing good in a hard spot. You acted quickly and decisively I think. Putting safety and boundaries first.</p><p></p><p>Have gone thru similar of late and i have a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) too.</p><p></p><p>I have a one story house with 17 large windows. When I am here alone I feel like I am in a fishbowl and completely vulnerable. It is not a good feeling.I found myself wishing I was in the city of my birth with one front door, period. </p><p></p><p>I had gone out to put water in the dog bowls, and as I was doing so, saw my son raise himself from relaxing on the back lawn. No awareness or recognition or caring that he was crossing a boundary.</p><p></p><p>One thing I am recognising (belatedly) is that the focus needs to be on me. My health. My peace of mind. My sense of safety. My gains.</p><p></p><p>I focused on what i wanted for my son. His safety. Security. Health. Well being. I trained him to locate my value in him. End. Of. That. Story.</p><p></p><p>What you are doing besides securing your life is walking this back. By walking back...to ourselves...we restore the equilibrium, the balance, in our lives.</p><p></p><p>It's hard to hold on to that when we are hurt and sad. I know. That's why we are here together.</p><p></p><p>Glad you came back.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 737569, member: 18958"] You are doing good in a hard spot. You acted quickly and decisively I think. Putting safety and boundaries first. Have gone thru similar of late and i have a Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) too. I have a one story house with 17 large windows. When I am here alone I feel like I am in a fishbowl and completely vulnerable. It is not a good feeling.I found myself wishing I was in the city of my birth with one front door, period. I had gone out to put water in the dog bowls, and as I was doing so, saw my son raise himself from relaxing on the back lawn. No awareness or recognition or caring that he was crossing a boundary. One thing I am recognising (belatedly) is that the focus needs to be on me. My health. My peace of mind. My sense of safety. My gains. I focused on what i wanted for my son. His safety. Security. Health. Well being. I trained him to locate my value in him. End. Of. That. Story. What you are doing besides securing your life is walking this back. By walking back...to ourselves...we restore the equilibrium, the balance, in our lives. It's hard to hold on to that when we are hurt and sad. I know. That's why we are here together. Glad you came back. [/QUOTE]
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