I'm back after several years. difficult child is almost nineteen, in trouble with the law for drinking and stealing. POT trouble is next. I'm brokenhearted after barely getting him graduated in June. He's costing us a fortune. Divorced his father after 41 years and I'm now remarried. difficult child lives with his father 8 miles away and since he's 18, we can hardly do a thing to help him. I'm SO sad....again.