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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 762055" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Nar Anon is NOT for the addicted person. It is for those involved with an addict like you are. You couldnt force your son to go to his program, Narcotics Anonymous either. You cant control this. His rock bottom is unknown. You can't know what it is. Or rush it. It doesn't even always happen.</p><p>l mean this kindly.You have figured out the entire plan and the outcome of your plan if the others cooperate. But they won't. You can't save your step son and your husband is an adult....if he decides not to see his son unless he is sober he does not need to be pushed to do it. We almost divorced over my pushing. Our intentions are always good and we think if we dont do our plan, nothing will get fixed.</p><p></p><p>But it does not, will not work and you will have your stepson and husband furious at your getting involved. It is not your problem and you can't solve anyone's but yourself. Yourself you can help.</p><p></p><p>Nobody can tell you what to do. I can't. I know this. But I hope you do get serious help as you, like me once, think you have to fix everything. And like me it will not work.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and much love. It is hard to let go but we must. Get help. Lots of help. For YOU.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 762055, member: 23706"] Nar Anon is NOT for the addicted person. It is for those involved with an addict like you are. You couldnt force your son to go to his program, Narcotics Anonymous either. You cant control this. His rock bottom is unknown. You can't know what it is. Or rush it. It doesn't even always happen. l mean this kindly.You have figured out the entire plan and the outcome of your plan if the others cooperate. But they won't. You can't save your step son and your husband is an adult....if he decides not to see his son unless he is sober he does not need to be pushed to do it. We almost divorced over my pushing. Our intentions are always good and we think if we dont do our plan, nothing will get fixed. But it does not, will not work and you will have your stepson and husband furious at your getting involved. It is not your problem and you can't solve anyone's but yourself. Yourself you can help. Nobody can tell you what to do. I can't. I know this. But I hope you do get serious help as you, like me once, think you have to fix everything. And like me it will not work. Hugs and much love. It is hard to let go but we must. Get help. Lots of help. For YOU. [/QUOTE]
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