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toughlovin
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Well I got the call from the sober house today. My son had some girl visit him from up here, they called and asked if she could stay at the place since she was his cousin... they agreed because they do allow families to visit. When she left they found a bunch of alcohol... so my son was given til tomorrow to figure out what he is going to do. I told them to take him to a homeless shelter!!! My son and I have texted some today... which totally pulled at my heartstrings... I told them to send me back the package I sent with the Sears gift card in it because I don't want to have it under these circumstances. They got the package today but had not given it to him yet.
I feel so many things right now. Some disgust and anger but a lot of sadness and grief. It is so hard to face the fact that unless he really figures things out he is going to end up dead or in jail. I can face jail but am having a hard time when I think he could die... and yet there is really nothing I can do. I totally know intellectually that I can't resuce him this time.. he has to figure out what he is going to do. I did suggest to him that he call Salvation army!!!
Glad he is 1000 miles south of us so it is warmer where he is than here.
I am pretty heartbroken, but really determined not to let him ruin MY ife at this point.
Good thoughts for me please.
TL
I feel so many things right now. Some disgust and anger but a lot of sadness and grief. It is so hard to face the fact that unless he really figures things out he is going to end up dead or in jail. I can face jail but am having a hard time when I think he could die... and yet there is really nothing I can do. I totally know intellectually that I can't resuce him this time.. he has to figure out what he is going to do. I did suggest to him that he call Salvation army!!!
Glad he is 1000 miles south of us so it is warmer where he is than here.
I am pretty heartbroken, but really determined not to let him ruin MY ife at this point.
Good thoughts for me please.
TL