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Bail raised to $600,000!! insanity!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 636752" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You know...we try really hard to help the victims here. usually the victioms are the parents. They are abused and hurt and even deserted by their adult children. We have all been through a lot. But we own what our adult children have done, especially once we know. At one time I didn't believe my oldest daughter did any drugs stronger than pot, but once I saw it for my own eyes, I didn't excuse her, blame her friends who were at the house with her, blame her father who can be verbally abusive at times, or blame anyone but her. That's how most of us are here. This isn't meant to be harsh to you. It is hoping to get you to see that it is your son who is the problem and that wasting your own life and giving up time with other loved ones is not healthy for anybody, including your son. He needs to know you love him, but that you are very disgusted with HIS behavior. I don't think the other guy is a bigger criminal than your son is. If that had happened to one of my kids, I'd want BOTH of them locked up for a long time. </p><p></p><p>I hope you one day see your son clearly.</p><p></p><p>I don't know how anyone can help you move on with you life when you see your son as a poor victim. We would love to help you, but you ignore our pleas to get help for yourself and let your son be the man he is and deal with what he did...see it as his victims saw it.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, I don't feel I can help you anymore, but I'm sure there are others who still will try.</p><p></p><p>Wishing you clarity, and with that clarity, help for YOU, kindness to YOURSELF, and healing of your broken heart. THAT we can all relate to. We are holding your hand and hoping you do start treating yourself well. You deserve that. You are an unusually caring person and do not deserve to be dragged down to the degree that you are letting this drag you down.</p><p></p><p>Hope you end up thriving and that your son someday gets help too and realizes what he did. Peace <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 636752, member: 1550"] You know...we try really hard to help the victims here. usually the victioms are the parents. They are abused and hurt and even deserted by their adult children. We have all been through a lot. But we own what our adult children have done, especially once we know. At one time I didn't believe my oldest daughter did any drugs stronger than pot, but once I saw it for my own eyes, I didn't excuse her, blame her friends who were at the house with her, blame her father who can be verbally abusive at times, or blame anyone but her. That's how most of us are here. This isn't meant to be harsh to you. It is hoping to get you to see that it is your son who is the problem and that wasting your own life and giving up time with other loved ones is not healthy for anybody, including your son. He needs to know you love him, but that you are very disgusted with HIS behavior. I don't think the other guy is a bigger criminal than your son is. If that had happened to one of my kids, I'd want BOTH of them locked up for a long time. I hope you one day see your son clearly. I don't know how anyone can help you move on with you life when you see your son as a poor victim. We would love to help you, but you ignore our pleas to get help for yourself and let your son be the man he is and deal with what he did...see it as his victims saw it. At any rate, I don't feel I can help you anymore, but I'm sure there are others who still will try. Wishing you clarity, and with that clarity, help for YOU, kindness to YOURSELF, and healing of your broken heart. THAT we can all relate to. We are holding your hand and hoping you do start treating yourself well. You deserve that. You are an unusually caring person and do not deserve to be dragged down to the degree that you are letting this drag you down. Hope you end up thriving and that your son someday gets help too and realizes what he did. Peace :) [/QUOTE]
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