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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 646298" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>So sorry you had to join us, but glad you are here.</p><p></p><p>If he isn't going to change and your husband is not going to take a reasonable stand, the only thing I can think of is you and your daughter leaving to get some peace. Your son is a man now, acting like a little boy, and you have no control over your husband's behavior toward him or your son's behavior. I would tell you to perhaps tell them both to leave, but you know your husband won't and he won't agree with you that your son should go.</p><p></p><p>If you are being abused by either, verbally or physically, a good place to go for a fresh start and a lot of help is your nearest domestic abuse shelter. Violent verbal talk or ridicule is abuse. In our center, they put women up and help them get services and housing and jobs.</p><p></p><p>If you want to stay, perhaps you need to start counseling to learn to cope with the madness. Getting a job, making friends of your own, doing things without your husband and son, making your own life while sleeping there is an option. You will fall apart eventually if you stay engaged in this sad situation. Do you have any family/friends to help you out? If not, you will need to do what I did and form your own support system. One way to start is to go to Al-Anon.That sort of a group is very helpful and also leads to friendship. You need not tell your husband where you are going if you afraid to. You are also an adult and nobody can tell YOU what to do either and you don't have to answer to either husband or son.</p><p></p><p>Does your husband drink too much or abuse drugs too? He sounds very controlling and hard to live with and not very mature.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 646298, member: 1550"] So sorry you had to join us, but glad you are here. If he isn't going to change and your husband is not going to take a reasonable stand, the only thing I can think of is you and your daughter leaving to get some peace. Your son is a man now, acting like a little boy, and you have no control over your husband's behavior toward him or your son's behavior. I would tell you to perhaps tell them both to leave, but you know your husband won't and he won't agree with you that your son should go. If you are being abused by either, verbally or physically, a good place to go for a fresh start and a lot of help is your nearest domestic abuse shelter. Violent verbal talk or ridicule is abuse. In our center, they put women up and help them get services and housing and jobs. If you want to stay, perhaps you need to start counseling to learn to cope with the madness. Getting a job, making friends of your own, doing things without your husband and son, making your own life while sleeping there is an option. You will fall apart eventually if you stay engaged in this sad situation. Do you have any family/friends to help you out? If not, you will need to do what I did and form your own support system. One way to start is to go to Al-Anon.That sort of a group is very helpful and also leads to friendship. You need not tell your husband where you are going if you afraid to. You are also an adult and nobody can tell YOU what to do either and you don't have to answer to either husband or son. Does your husband drink too much or abuse drugs too? He sounds very controlling and hard to live with and not very mature. [/QUOTE]
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