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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 646304" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Rhonda, I am so sorry this is happening to you and your daughter right now. It does sound like your son is out of control on drugs and that also maybe masking any other disorders or mental illness he has going on. Having said that, you do not have to allow this son of yours who has turned into a vicious bully to live with you anymore. With the behavior you are describing he has no respect for you or any boundaries you should require of him. Perhaps it has come to a time where you need to change the locks on the door or use the police reports to have him evicted from your home. What you have been suffering is abuse from your own child. Yes, domestic violence can be perpetrated on family members. From what you have written you have suffered the following types of DV: Mental and emotional abuse, and financial abuse (theft of your personal items) </p><p>Possibly the relationship between you and your husband has broken down because by the time your husband returns from the road the whole house is in an uproar. (Not that I am blaming you here for that breakdown - that is the fault of your son for bringing the turmoil into the home)</p><p>I too, would encourage you to join AL-anon but also seek information from your local domestic violence center for help in extracting your son from your home. You, and your daughter deserve to live better than you have been living. I am glad you found this group for support. You will get different ideas on how to handle things going forward and with any support group take what works for you and leave the rest. </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/welcomecat.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":welcomecat:" title="welcomecat :welcomecat:" data-shortname=":welcomecat:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 646304, member: 18366"] Rhonda, I am so sorry this is happening to you and your daughter right now. It does sound like your son is out of control on drugs and that also maybe masking any other disorders or mental illness he has going on. Having said that, you do not have to allow this son of yours who has turned into a vicious bully to live with you anymore. With the behavior you are describing he has no respect for you or any boundaries you should require of him. Perhaps it has come to a time where you need to change the locks on the door or use the police reports to have him evicted from your home. What you have been suffering is abuse from your own child. Yes, domestic violence can be perpetrated on family members. From what you have written you have suffered the following types of DV: Mental and emotional abuse, and financial abuse (theft of your personal items) Possibly the relationship between you and your husband has broken down because by the time your husband returns from the road the whole house is in an uproar. (Not that I am blaming you here for that breakdown - that is the fault of your son for bringing the turmoil into the home) I too, would encourage you to join AL-anon but also seek information from your local domestic violence center for help in extracting your son from your home. You, and your daughter deserve to live better than you have been living. I am glad you found this group for support. You will get different ideas on how to handle things going forward and with any support group take what works for you and leave the rest. :welcomecat: [/QUOTE]
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