Husband took rest of the week off. Was suppose to deal with son,about finding a job. Took him a couple places supposedly. All our son has wanted to do is argue. Sleep on the couch. I tried to just not say anything. All it did was make me more upset and evem more stressed. I've been sick all week,so that hasn't helped. Its like a war zone around here. I got out todau and went to a group Ive wanted to go to for quite awhile. I crochet,sometimes that helps me to escape what's going on. I hadnt even bern there 10 minutes and my text was going off. Daughter said that my son was argueing with his uncle and he needed to get back to the house. Every time O tryand do something by myself or for me my phone starts blowing up. Well after I got home later,I found out what was going on. Our son has a Real Baf Habit of LYING!!! He told our neighbor across the street,that our daughter was in jail and we didnt have the money to get her out. So this neighbor supposedly gave him some money,he says one amount and she says another amount. This has been going on since last summer. Well today her husband confronted our son again about the money. Then the wife came out screaming in the middle of the road that she was going to take him to small claims court. As it is none of our neighbors will even talk to us at all because of all the crap he has caused around here. She was screaming at him saying that he had been telling everyone that him and his uncle had taken her for money. His uncle had nothing to do with it. She's run her mouth and we have some busybodies on our street. All I could do was shake my head. And of course his father csme home to rescue him. I lost it with my husband and told him that he just is enabling him. He's 26 yrs old. Hes not a baby. Im the stinking mediator and still No one listens. Husband thinks if he does more things for me ,then I'll jusy shut up and let it go.Doesn't Work thay way He does thr same with my daughter. I hate the weekends. My kids are adults,I dont think I should have to deal with all of this Crap now. It was like this when they were little,it didn't matter who took care of them,which wasn't often.because I knew when I got back all I would hear is this is what your son did!!##!!. I dont know what it is like to go and do something without coming home or getting a call thay the kids have dine something or now its my daughter or son are arguing with one another or their father. There father is just as bad. I could be in Buffalo new york and they'll call and expect me to handle the issue. I was made to grow up fast.By 9 I was cooking,doing dishes, to take care of my infant brother and 4 yr old brother. Tonight I just feel like Im ready to jump out of my skin. Just to much going on. If I keep going I'll be typing forever. Saying a Prayer for All of the Parents out there Struggling with all of this Mess!