I have not been on these forums for a couple of years at least. I thought turned a corner with my daughter although she was still difficult to deal with. I won’t re hash the history. As of now she is 19 years old. She did graduate high school but barely. Would not study and only did well in her art class which is what she wants to major in and computers both A,s. So it’s not like she can’t do the work. We now have her enrolled in community college which will start Wednesday. She does not drive yet as states afraid too. She spent most of her summer playing league of legends as those are her friends. She seems to have isolated herself more even from us her parents. She will,still go places once in a while and still asks for help with things but has an angry side when approached about college. She has never worked a job. She stopped seeo her psychiatrist and did not like taking medications. She seems to have a lot of anxiety. We have a counselor who has seen her in the past and does family therapy. Went once with family and was the most she spoke although blamed everything on us. I just saw counselor myself last week for my own well being and to come up with a plan. He had suggested some other natural based medications but also thought about hypnosis. According to him she appears afraid to move on to the next part of her life and become independent. She still won’t go to get her ID picture for college or go to show her where her classes are. I know most people say she’s an adult now it’s her decision but she may be 19 but is not mature yet. I was hoping once she got into some classes she would meet people with common interests and may open up. I feel like running out of options for someone her age. I know inside she must be miserable just hanging out in her room. I can’t make her go to therapy or school or get a job. I’ve read other post where parents kick the kids out or have them removed. I also know people will ask if she is doing drugs which she is not. She’s not violent just scared I think. I feel like she needs life skills. She used to play soccer and softball amd her freshman year in high school did track. The only thing that I think could have happened tomstsrt this is her best friend missed 2 years of school because she was self harming herself. When she came back to school I heard nothing about it from my daughter but that’s when she decided she didn’t want to go to school any more. Missed a year while we tried home schooling and looking for a placement outside our school district. She found a school she liked and did well her sophomore year there and junior. Senior year was more of a challenge. Again never really spoke of any friends or hung out with anyone. So she doesent drink, do drugs or has been diagnosed with any major depressive disorder. I was told by her dr she was “stuck” and until she wants to talk he couldn’t do a lot. I’m coming here to vent and see if anyone has any similar experience with facilities or medication. I was going to try CBD oil but have not found anything specific on dosing for anxiety.