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<blockquote data-quote="Catmom" data-source="post: 707920" data-attributes="member: 21332"><p>Lost in sadness,</p><p></p><p>Don't beat yourself up over writing the "classy" comment. I too lost control with my son and gave in to his games when he text me and insulted me and said all kinds of rude things to me. Goodness, my parents were absolutely horrible and abusive when I was young and I never once talked to them like that. I did beat myself up a little for not being in more control and ignoring everything he was saying, but lesson learned for next time. I now know not to play into any comments that he says or posts on text me, after all, he is like a little kid looking for a reaction. And going forward, when he can talk to me like the 22 year old adult that he is, I will talk to him. In the meantime, when he acts like a kid, I am going to ignore it and block him if need be to protect my sanity.</p><p>And yes, like what you are saying, my son grew up in the suburbs typical middle class family yet he seems to think that selling drugs and stealing are a good way to supplement your income. by the way...he goes to court in April for his part time job of selling drugs. Sorry for sarcasm.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/frown.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":frown:" title="frown :frown:" data-shortname=":frown:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Catmom, post: 707920, member: 21332"] Lost in sadness, Don't beat yourself up over writing the "classy" comment. I too lost control with my son and gave in to his games when he text me and insulted me and said all kinds of rude things to me. Goodness, my parents were absolutely horrible and abusive when I was young and I never once talked to them like that. I did beat myself up a little for not being in more control and ignoring everything he was saying, but lesson learned for next time. I now know not to play into any comments that he says or posts on text me, after all, he is like a little kid looking for a reaction. And going forward, when he can talk to me like the 22 year old adult that he is, I will talk to him. In the meantime, when he acts like a kid, I am going to ignore it and block him if need be to protect my sanity. And yes, like what you are saying, my son grew up in the suburbs typical middle class family yet he seems to think that selling drugs and stealing are a good way to supplement your income. by the way...he goes to court in April for his part time job of selling drugs. Sorry for sarcasm.:frown: [/QUOTE]
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