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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 707880" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, dont waste your time. He knows he is lying if he is presenting this as fact---but he wants to lie. Telling him anything has not worked before and wont work now. Restrain from needing to scold him. Less is more with these kids. They use our words to hurt us worse. The truth is, they dont care about the truth and how we feel. If he is using drugs, that could be why.</p><p></p><p>I personally believe we should not read their social media. For our own peace of mind. They often posture for their friends on social media. In other words, lie for drama.</p><p></p><p>He will not see because of your words. He will just block you more. He isnt ready to change.</p><p></p><p>Dont personalize the lies. They are about themselves, not you. Yes, i know its very hard and I am so sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 707880, member: 1550"] Hon, dont waste your time. He knows he is lying if he is presenting this as fact---but he wants to lie. Telling him anything has not worked before and wont work now. Restrain from needing to scold him. Less is more with these kids. They use our words to hurt us worse. The truth is, they dont care about the truth and how we feel. If he is using drugs, that could be why. I personally believe we should not read their social media. For our own peace of mind. They often posture for their friends on social media. In other words, lie for drama. He will not see because of your words. He will just block you more. He isnt ready to change. Dont personalize the lies. They are about themselves, not you. Yes, i know its very hard and I am so sorry. [/QUOTE]
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