We always seem to come back to this. THe problem is noone has any solution. I know that there are no clear answers when it comes to Sammy. There has to be some way to handle this. We went from great to back to square 1. Nothing works. The chocolate doesnt help the diaper changing anymore. I can barely get him out of the crib. I have bruises up and down my arms and legs. It looks like my husband beats me. Diaper changing is a wrestling match. Eveything is screaming NO or screaming and running into the other room and then flailing and banging his head. We asked him "would you like some cake?" who knew that that was cause to act like a murder was being commited? I am really at the end of my rope with this. Life is absolutly unlivable. We cant go anywhere or do anything. We cant talk to him or even look at him. He is always a million times worse and more aggressive towards me. Noone can seem to figure this out and noone has any suggestions. Someone NEEDS to come up with something. We need help!