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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 678069" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Hopeful,</p><p></p><p>I'm so glad you shared what is going on with you. Holding it inside does no good. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can imagine how upsetting it was to view that video. I agree with the others that the police should be notified.</p><p></p><p>Your son very well may be using the mental illness as a manipulation tool. One thing I have learned about difficult children is to never underestimate how low they will stoop to get what they want. I have been on the receiving end of my son talking the talk and me believing him only to have it all shattered when the truth comes out, and the truth always has a way of coming out.</p><p></p><p>You are very wise to keep things in check and to be on guard. That is something else I learned about my son, to always be on guard. With my son, if his lips are moving he's most likely lying. I have been played by him too many times.</p><p>I think as long as you are aware that he can be scamming you, you will be able to talk to him occasionally. It's when we "believe" what they are telling us that we so easily can by sucked back into the chaos vortex.</p><p></p><p>The most important person you need to concern yourself with is YOU. It sounds to me like you have a very good grasp of all that is going on.</p><p></p><p>I hope all goes well with your biopsy. Please let us know how things turn out. We care about you.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS))) to you this winters night..............</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 678069, member: 18516"] Hi Hopeful, I'm so glad you shared what is going on with you. Holding it inside does no good. I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can imagine how upsetting it was to view that video. I agree with the others that the police should be notified. Your son very well may be using the mental illness as a manipulation tool. One thing I have learned about difficult children is to never underestimate how low they will stoop to get what they want. I have been on the receiving end of my son talking the talk and me believing him only to have it all shattered when the truth comes out, and the truth always has a way of coming out. You are very wise to keep things in check and to be on guard. That is something else I learned about my son, to always be on guard. With my son, if his lips are moving he's most likely lying. I have been played by him too many times. I think as long as you are aware that he can be scamming you, you will be able to talk to him occasionally. It's when we "believe" what they are telling us that we so easily can by sucked back into the chaos vortex. The most important person you need to concern yourself with is YOU. It sounds to me like you have a very good grasp of all that is going on. I hope all goes well with your biopsy. Please let us know how things turn out. We care about you. (((HUGS))) to you this winters night.............. [/QUOTE]
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