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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 704545" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Don't worry. He's playing games with you and has a paid up house to go to. He isn't homeless and he isn't going to freeze to death (but it's a good manipulation).</p><p></p><p>You can't make him get help and have no obligation to let him sleep on your couch.</p><p></p><p>You don't know if he is clean. Why won't he work?</p><p></p><p>He has no right to ever call you a B#@$%&. Take back your self respect.</p><p></p><p>All in all, you are probably worrying for nothing. He knows how to survive. Difficult kids are good at surviving.</p><p></p><p>I would tell him he has a house to go to, you are sorry it makes him sad, but he can't stay with you. Tell him you love him then go to work. You need to protect yourself from his manipulations and attempts to control you.</p><p></p><p>Be very good to yourself. Maybe sleep with your phone off. Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 704545, member: 1550"] Don't worry. He's playing games with you and has a paid up house to go to. He isn't homeless and he isn't going to freeze to death (but it's a good manipulation). You can't make him get help and have no obligation to let him sleep on your couch. You don't know if he is clean. Why won't he work? He has no right to ever call you a B#@$%&. Take back your self respect. All in all, you are probably worrying for nothing. He knows how to survive. Difficult kids are good at surviving. I would tell him he has a house to go to, you are sorry it makes him sad, but he can't stay with you. Tell him you love him then go to work. You need to protect yourself from his manipulations and attempts to control you. Be very good to yourself. Maybe sleep with your phone off. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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