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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 716541" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>We have a lawyer in place. I would not deal with my brother or family without one involved. The will needs to pass probate and the bank stated they require this before they will release any funds to trust. This is due to family discourse and in fighting pre and post my father's death. My one brother and sister forged cheques and took money from the estate accounts. My poor father could not even write his own name due to a stroke and my sister used his debit card to extract more cash the day before he died (she is being investigated for elder abuse and professional misconduct as she is a nurse). Breaks my heart. My brother who is determined to witch hunt my sisters who were POS for my mom is a bit off his rocker. My sisters are older and well meaning both are sick. One with MS and the other with lung disease and multiple myeloma. They did what they felt was appropriate and managed my mother's affairs very well. They did the best they could and ensured she was safe and well cared for and as Alzheimer's debilitated my aging mother. </p><p></p><p>I have decided to remain on as co executor ...sigh... as I believe my brother is acting the way he is towards me to have me step off. I told him if his behavior did not stop and the accusations of wrong doing did not stop that I would have the lawyer act as intermediary between us and have no direct contact with him. Given that no one else in the family will speak to him he is on thin ice. He calmed down and I have not had any harrasing accusatory e mails or texts today. Man life gets nuts! </p><p></p><p>I am sorry to hear about your relationship with your mother. My father was a hard man on my mother. He was furious when we had my mother put in a care home. He only wanted her there because he could lot manage without her. He bossed her around and ran her ragged even when she was failing herself. She was mentally broken and chronically depressed and a hoarder all her life. May she be at peace in the hands of her God. My dad mellowed with age but was a demanding bugger right to the end. I think my brother has unaddressed mental issues he is rediculously paranoid and comes up with some wacky accusations. I will find the strength. At least it keeps my mind off my son</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/hangoversmiley.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hangoversmiley:" title="hangoversmiley :hangoversmiley:" data-shortname=":hangoversmiley:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 716541, member: 21895"] We have a lawyer in place. I would not deal with my brother or family without one involved. The will needs to pass probate and the bank stated they require this before they will release any funds to trust. This is due to family discourse and in fighting pre and post my father's death. My one brother and sister forged cheques and took money from the estate accounts. My poor father could not even write his own name due to a stroke and my sister used his debit card to extract more cash the day before he died (she is being investigated for elder abuse and professional misconduct as she is a nurse). Breaks my heart. My brother who is determined to witch hunt my sisters who were POS for my mom is a bit off his rocker. My sisters are older and well meaning both are sick. One with MS and the other with lung disease and multiple myeloma. They did what they felt was appropriate and managed my mother's affairs very well. They did the best they could and ensured she was safe and well cared for and as Alzheimer's debilitated my aging mother. I have decided to remain on as co executor ...sigh... as I believe my brother is acting the way he is towards me to have me step off. I told him if his behavior did not stop and the accusations of wrong doing did not stop that I would have the lawyer act as intermediary between us and have no direct contact with him. Given that no one else in the family will speak to him he is on thin ice. He calmed down and I have not had any harrasing accusatory e mails or texts today. Man life gets nuts! I am sorry to hear about your relationship with your mother. My father was a hard man on my mother. He was furious when we had my mother put in a care home. He only wanted her there because he could lot manage without her. He bossed her around and ran her ragged even when she was failing herself. She was mentally broken and chronically depressed and a hoarder all her life. May she be at peace in the hands of her God. My dad mellowed with age but was a demanding bugger right to the end. I think my brother has unaddressed mental issues he is rediculously paranoid and comes up with some wacky accusations. I will find the strength. At least it keeps my mind off my son :hangoversmiley: [/QUOTE]
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