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<blockquote data-quote="stressedmama" data-source="post: 652789" data-attributes="member: 18412"><p>She's renting a room in a house with others that are in recovery, but it's not a recovery house. Just roommates. Although she's been spending most, if not all, of her time with her boyfriend who still lives at home with his parents. He's also in recovery (about 7 yrs). Honestly, I'm not so sure she even still has a room at the other house or if she gave it up and is just living with boyfriend and his parents full time now. I asked the questions and got an answer but don't believe it...</p><p></p><p>She doesn't call and ask about GS. We had dinner with her a couple weeks ago after her car accident and again last weekend when she returned the rental car. GS had a pretty meltdown the next evening and hubs and I believe it had to with the visit. Hubs actually said we needed to take a break from seeing Difficult Child for a while. I'll happily oblige. She does nothing for me...and what I mean by that is she doesn't affect my happiness and I really have let go of most of the anger/annoyance/hostility, etc. so she doesn't really affect me negatively, either. </p><p></p><p>We go back to court in 3 weeks for permanent guardianship. She's not coming. I don't think she'll ever come back for him. And I'm ok with that, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="stressedmama, post: 652789, member: 18412"] She's renting a room in a house with others that are in recovery, but it's not a recovery house. Just roommates. Although she's been spending most, if not all, of her time with her boyfriend who still lives at home with his parents. He's also in recovery (about 7 yrs). Honestly, I'm not so sure she even still has a room at the other house or if she gave it up and is just living with boyfriend and his parents full time now. I asked the questions and got an answer but don't believe it... She doesn't call and ask about GS. We had dinner with her a couple weeks ago after her car accident and again last weekend when she returned the rental car. GS had a pretty meltdown the next evening and hubs and I believe it had to with the visit. Hubs actually said we needed to take a break from seeing Difficult Child for a while. I'll happily oblige. She does nothing for me...and what I mean by that is she doesn't affect my happiness and I really have let go of most of the anger/annoyance/hostility, etc. so she doesn't really affect me negatively, either. We go back to court in 3 weeks for permanent guardianship. She's not coming. I don't think she'll ever come back for him. And I'm ok with that, too. [/QUOTE]
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